Every relationship let it be of mother and child, siblings or friendship, needs nurturing.
Love and care are two basic ingredients to hold on to any relation. But be careful, always remember, excess of anything is bad. Don’t smother a person with your love.
You can drive a person insane with your constant attention. But at the same time show your boyfriend how much you care for him.
Give attention and importance to his every little whim. Make him feel special in your life. He should constantly get the vibrations of your love for him.
Make him aware of his importance in your life. If he is angry with you or has broken up with you, you can always convey your feelings in various different ways.
Make him realize, that you are missing him and would like to have him back. Leave a door open for him so that he doesn’t have the feeling that he has permanently closed all his future prospects with you, when walking out of your life. Boost his ego to certain extent.
Remember, love knows no limits and no boundaries. Let it be known to him that your love for him is unconditional and you are prepared to have him back, as he is, along with his flaws and shortcomings.
Don’t try to change him, if required change yourself. At times we start taking things for granted. Don’t do that. Loving someone is not sufficient in itself, if it is not displayed properly.
Words are as important as deeds to sustain our relationship. Actions somehow are not always enough.
One has to express the feelings vocally also. Don’t just assume that your partner knows how much you love and care for him. On and off, say it with words also.
Call him randomly, anytime of the day, just to say “I Love You”. He would appreciate the gesture, believe me. Won’t you have? Everyone requires and needs that assurance.
It reconfirms a person’s belief that he is needed and wanted. Start saying three words like “I Love You”, “I Miss You”, and “I Desire You” to make your relationship alive.
You can leave little notes with your feelings expresses on it in different places, where you know he is bound to see them. That would put a big smile on his face.
Along with it you will be constantly there in his mind (that is the main purpose of the whole exercise. Don’t you think so?) Have you ever observed plants closely? If left on their own, ev en the healthy ones wither and die.
Plants have the tendency to bend towards sun and light. If given proper care and attention, they bloom and flourish. Same is the case with any relationship.
If cared and nurtured properly they shine and illuminate, and if neglected and left on their own they change their directions and flow towards greener pastures. So, don’t let your relationship with your boy friend dry up. Keep it hydrated.
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