Woman are emotional fools, they carry a large baggage with them everywhere which contains rights and wrongs of life.
Leave your heavy suitcases behind for a change, for someone else to look after. Be light headed and move forward in life with an open and clear mind. Be firm and determined in your pursuit. Don’t be aggressive.
Be subtle but single focused. Persistence is the key to success. Don’t give up without a good fight. A battle lost doesn’t necessarily mean lost war.
If you want your boy friend back badly, go after him all armored, and ensure others know of your intentions. Determination always pays.
Be consistent in your approach. Remember you are fighting for what was yours and you want it back. Don’t show your desperation, by being clinging and submissive.
Be independent in your approach. Never should he feel burdened down by having you around him. Being soft, delicate and vulnerable are some good qualities that a women should have, but at the same time confidence in oneself is equally important.
Being always dependent on your man for every big or small problem is the fastest and the surest way of ensuring his reluctance in continuing the relationship on a long term basis.
At first, they all like their girl friends to be feminine and submissive and looking upon them starry eyed.
Men enjoy being asked their opinion regarding their girl friends clothes and accessories. Their full time attention and company boost their egos.
They feel manly with a girl friend tagging along with them and being always there at their beck and call. But over the period of time they start feeling suffocated and chained down when constantly in the company of a naïve, ignorant, empty headed girl friend, who is dependent on them for their every small requirement.
Change your attitude. Be independent and confident. But remember, only confident and not over confident. Try to relieve him from the strain of taking every small decision, help him out with his basic daily needs.
Men will never admit but they are very poor housekeepers. Doing basic daily chores like grocery shopping, bills payment, home cleaning bore them to death. Increase their dependency on you by simplifying and sorting out their everyday routine.
One most common excuse for a break up in almost every relation is the fight over who takes the responsibilities. If that has been the reason in your case, now is the chance to rectify it. It won’t hurt you
to take the first step towards reconciliation. Have that much confidence and determination in you to be able to manage things single handedly.
Let him also have that much faith in you. Ask him to give you a week’s time to prove yourself. Show it to him that you can manage things on your own without his interference and that too with perfection. You should not be an added responsibility on him but a company for him, and that too an intelligent one.
Charm him down with your confidence, determination and independence. Just notice, he won’t want to go anywhere away from you. And why should he? He has nothing to lose and everything to gain.
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