Enter into any relationship with open eyes. When dating a boyfriend, one might be mistaken into thinking that loving him and only he is sufficient.
Every relationship comes with certain accessories along with it. You have to accept the package as a whole. Don’t ever try to isolate or separate it from each. Remember your partner has a life apart from you also.
He has a life which consists of his friends, his family, and his colleagues. You might crave for your boy friend’s exclusive time and attention, but over a period of time, even that might turn out to be
boring and monotonous.
On and off, try to hang out with his friends. Include your common friends in your outings. His friends are also an integral part of him. Be in their good books. Always ensure they have something nice to say about you when with him. Be jovial, lively and extrovert in their company. How others perceive you, reflect on your personality.
When wooing your lost love, these friends can be very instrumental. Friends always cloud your judgment. If you are not accepted or liked by his friends, gradually, even he would start finding faults in you, and shift his attention elsewhere, to a merrier and a livelier company.
Be a sought after person when in a group. This would escalate your worth in his eyes also. Everyone is more attracted to interesting and fun loving people rather than dull and boring ones.
Help out his friends in their problems. You never know when, you might also need their support. Invite his friends over and give him a surprise.
Plan some common outings. As it is, “MORE THE MERRIER”. Even if he has broken up with you, keep in constant touch with his friends. Hang out with them. Continue going out with them as usual. That will serve two purposes. Firstly, it would make him realize, how comfortable you are with his group and it is not just because of him that they have accepted you but they like your company as an individual also.
Secondly, you will be in constant touch with him. Who all is he mingling up with? Is he dating someone else? Who all are there in his group, now that he has left you? You would not have to worry about these questions since you can be aware of his activities through his friends.
Type of people he hangs out with also gives you a broader idea of his personality. It’s not necessary just spending exclusive time together can bring two people closer.
At times, meeting in a bigger group makes us understand each other better. You come to know of his priorities in life, his likes and dislikes, his basic character. Now use this knowledge to your advantage.
Use his friends as a trump card in winning his love back. Ensure you play your cards right. Let his friends make him realize his mistake by letting you go. Reap now what all you have sown till date in friendship.
Play emotional games with his friends. Work on their sympathy. Let them bring your boy friend back to you. All your hard work till now in building up this friendship will pay.
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