First, start with your physical appearance. Stand in front of a mirror and appraise yourself from head to toe very critically.
Say, let’s begin with hair. Are they dull, rough and unkempt? Have you had a same hair style for a very long time?
If so, take an appointment from your hair dresser for the earliest possible. Go for a new hair style keeping in mind your boy friend’s liking for short or long hair.
If you think there is nothing wrong with your hairdo, take a step down.
Now, let’s tackle the face. Are you losing out on your freshness and gaiety due to tension? Is your regular glow missing? Where is the sparkle of your eyes that first attracted him to you?
Don’t let go of your mischievous smile. Rush for a facial. Get a spa and massage done. Get yourself rejuvenated. Splurge on yourself. Go for bright, lively lip shades and make-up. Throw away anything dull
and somber.
Next comes the clothing part. There is a old saying “God made a man, tailor made a Gentleman”. Clothes can make or break you.
Pamper yourself, go for a new wardrobe. Pick out some smart sexy clothes. They will not only make you look attractive but at the same time will boost up your self confidence. You will feel good from within.
Don’t forget you are out on a killing spree. Nothing is wrong in love and war.
Don’t be demure and shy and go out on a hunt for your man with full force. Make sure when you walk down on the road heads turn. Also ensure, your ex is somewhere around, noticing other men goggle at you.
Men love to possess something other craves for. Believe it or not, they love to show off, as much if not more than as women.
Keep two days aside for your physical transformation and in these two days don’t let your ex have a glimpse of you.
Once you are satisfied that you are looking your best possible, try to go out with your friends preferably a male one, to those common joints, where you are sure your ex boy friend is also bound to be. Flaunt yourself unashamedly. Flirt around and give a notion of having a good time. At the same time make sure, you do not entirely ignore your ex or go overboard in your act.
That might give him an idea that you are doing all this in a rebound and it might please him further that he still has that hold on you. Your purpose of all this should be to make him realize what all he is missing by walking out on you. Be a little distant but at the same time be friendly with him, so that he gets the message that he still has the scope of coming back to you.
Don’t scare him off by getting too close to your male friends that might send entirely wrong vibes.
Be graceful and elegant and show off your newly acquired poise. If he approaches you with a desire to meet again, don’t show over enthusiasm, and don’t ever let him feel as if this whole trap had been set up purposely by you with the only intention of entrapping him into it.
A man likes to catch his own prey. The feeling of being hunted down scares them off. Don’t repeat the mistakes that led to this break up at the first place.
When with him don’t compromise with your new looks. Use your new wardrobe and make-up to your full advantage. A man likes to be seen in the company of beautiful and attractive women and there is no dearth of such ladies around. You have a constant competition. One more important aspect that should be kept in mind is, always behave in a proper manner when out with other men. Don’t give your ex any wrong signals about your character.
Flirting with other men should be well within the limits of a friendship. Don’t give anyone the idea that you are easily available for any Tom, Dick and Harry. Let there be full respect in your relationship once you regain it.
That is the most important ingredient for a long lasting relationship. So, have a nice time with your new look. There is a definite surety that it is going to catch your boy friend’s attention and bowl him out flat.
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