It is important that you are serious about getting back with your ex. The emotions run high during a breakup and you need to keep your anger and hurt in check.
Be sure that your feelings for your ex are real. Be confident that you want to make a go of the relationship again.
If one of the parties is not serious about it, they need to be honest and say so.
Playing games with your ex is serious business and can have serious consequences if you’re not ready to get back together with them.
Demonstrate Your Commitment
There are things that you can do to show your ex that you are serious about getting back with them and staying together.
However, there are some people that think you have to spend a lot of money and always do something big in order to impress them. That is not true. A lot of times it’s the little and simple things that you can do that will stand out.
The little things are those that your ex will appreciate the most. They can be planned or they can be spontaneous.
Here are some of the little things you can do for your ex once you’ve gotten past the getting back together stage:
- Compliment them on how they look. Tell them how beautiful or how handsome they are.
- Give them a single rose.
- Give them a hug and let them know how much you appreciate them.
- Call them spontaneously and let them know that you are thinking about them.
- Hold their hand.
- Give them a massage after a rough day.
- Leave them notes and let them know how you feel.
- Place your arm around them as you’re taking a walk.
- Smile at them.
Before you can move on, learn from your mistakes and vow not to repeat them again. If you and your ex are looking to start fresh in a relationship with each other, start slow and don’t expect a lot from each other in the beginning.
Going slow is the best way to renew and rekindle a relationship. Both of you will be able to start fresh and make amends.
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