Get Your Ex Back Strategy #2: Take Your Time

Get Your Ex Back Strategy #1: Improve Yourself

Get Your Ex Back Strategy #2: Take Your Time

If it’s full speed ahead for you and your ex, both parties need to check
themselves. There are things that should have been resolved prior to you
guys getting back together.
 
Here are some things that you need to do before you rebuild that commitment
again:
 
· If your relationship was wavering, you and your ex need to make sure
that this time around the outcome will be different. Both of you have to
make changes in order for the relationship to work and grow.

· You and your ex have learned what to do and what not to do from your
previous relationship. The mistakes that were made back then are
history. You have realized that you can’t do the same things again.

· Any problems that both of you had with each other have been resolved.
Those issues will not or should not come up again. It’s important to
hash out the past before moving on to the future.

· Both parties must be willing to give and take. It can’t be one person
always giving and the other one always taking. There has to be a
balance. Also, there will be times when you have to compromise, even
though you may not want to.

· Both parties will need to agree to disagree. It’s obvious that you’re not
going to agree on everything, but you can agree to disagree. Doing
that will give both of you a peace of mind.

· You and your ex both know what you want out of the relationship. You
have sat and talked with each other extensively. You know each
other’s habits, what makes you alike as well as what makes you
different and you’re willing to accept that.

· You don’t have to be around each other all of the time. Even in a
relationship, you still need space. If you don’t one of you may start
feeling needy. Or one of you may start feeling cramped.

· Move on from past mistakes. Both of you are looking for a fresh start,
so what better way to do it than to move forward? Looking back in the
past just keeps you behind. You can’t move forward if you’re always
dwelling on what happened before, especially if it was negative.

· You have confidence that the relationship will work. You and your ex
can work together to iron out any differences that you may have.

· You have genuine respect for each other. Neither of you is about
disrespecting the other in any way.

· Be able to be affectionate toward your ex again. This is one of the main
parts of getting back together. There has to be genuine love and care
for each other. Don’t just get back together because of the intimacy
and the lovemaking that you miss so much.

· Remove any jealousy or envy from your relationship. You nor your ex
can have a satisfying and productive relationship if one or both parties
are insecure and can’t trust each other.

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