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Friday, February 28, 2014

The Secret to Get Back Your Ex : Enhance your physical appearance

Jot down your positive and negative points on a piece of paper. Work on the negative aspects and flaunt the positive ones.

First, start with your physical appearance. Stand in front of a mirror and appraise yourself from head to toe very critically.

Say, let’s begin with hair. Are they dull, rough and unkempt? Have you had a same hair style for a very long time?


If so, take an appointment from your hair dresser for the earliest possible. Go for a new hair style keeping in mind your boy friend’s liking for short or long hair.

If you think there is nothing wrong with your hairdo, take a step down.

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Now, let’s tackle the face. Are you losing out on your freshness and gaiety due to tension? Is your regular glow missing? Where is the sparkle of your eyes that first attracted him to you?

Don’t let go of your mischievous smile. Rush for a facial. Get a spa and massage done. Get yourself  rejuvenated. Splurge on yourself. Go for bright, lively lip shades and make-up. Throw away anything dull
and somber.


Next comes the clothing part. There is a old saying “God made a man, tailor made a Gentleman”. Clothes can make or break you.

Pamper yourself, go for a new wardrobe. Pick out some smart sexy clothes. They will not only make you look attractive but at the same time will boost up your self confidence. You will feel good from within.

Don’t forget you are out on a killing spree. Nothing is wrong in love and war.

Don’t be demure and shy and go out on a hunt for your man with full force. Make sure when you walk down on the road heads turn. Also ensure, your ex is somewhere around, noticing other men goggle at you.

Men love to possess something other craves for. Believe it or not, they love to show off, as much if not more than as women.

Keep two days aside for your physical transformation and in these two days don’t let your ex have a glimpse of you.

Once you are satisfied that you are looking your best possible, try to go out with your friends preferably a male one, to those common joints, where you are sure your ex boy friend is also bound to be. Flaunt yourself unashamedly. Flirt around and give a notion of having a good time. At the same time make sure, you do not entirely ignore your ex or go overboard in your act.

That might give him an idea that you are doing all this in a rebound and it might please him further that he still has that hold on you. Your purpose of all this should be to make him realize what all he is missing by walking out on you. Be a little distant but at the same time be friendly with him, so that he gets the message that he still has the scope of coming back to you.


Don’t scare him off by getting too close to your male friends that might send entirely wrong vibes.

Be graceful and elegant and show off your newly acquired poise. If he approaches you with a desire to meet again, don’t show over enthusiasm, and don’t ever let him feel as if this whole trap had been set up purposely by you with the only intention of entrapping him into it.

A man likes to catch his own prey. The feeling of being hunted down scares them off. Don’t repeat the mistakes that led to this break up at the first place.

When with him don’t compromise with your new looks. Use your new wardrobe and make-up to your full advantage. A man likes to be seen in the company of beautiful and attractive women and there is no dearth of such ladies around. You have a constant competition. One more important aspect that should be kept in mind is, always behave in a proper manner when out with other men. Don’t give your ex any wrong signals about your character.

Flirting with other men should be well within the limits of a friendship. Don’t give anyone the idea that you are easily available for any Tom, Dick and Harry. Let there be full respect in your relationship once you regain it.

That is the most important ingredient for a long lasting relationship. So, have a nice time with your new look. There is a definite surety that it is going to catch your boy friend’s attention and bowl him out flat.
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Thursday, February 27, 2014

The Secret to Get Your Ex Back: Don’t Play Games and Demonstrate Your Commitment

Don’t play games and string them along.

It is important that you are serious about getting back with your ex. The emotions run high during a breakup and you need to keep your anger and hurt in check.

Be sure that your feelings for your ex are real. Be confident that you want to make a go of the relationship again.

If one of the parties is not serious about it, they need to be honest and say so.

Playing games with your ex is serious business and can have serious consequences if you’re not ready to get back together with them.

Demonstrate Your Commitment

There are things that you can do to show your ex that you are serious about getting back with them and staying together.

However, there are some people that think you have to spend a lot of money and always do something big in order to impress them. That is not true. A lot of times it’s the little and simple things that you can do that will stand out.

The little things are those that your ex will appreciate the most. They can be planned or they can be spontaneous.

Here are some of the little things you can do for your ex once you’ve gotten past the getting back together stage:

  • Compliment them on how they look. Tell them how beautiful or how handsome they are.
  • Give them a single rose.
  • Give them a hug and let them know how much you appreciate them.
  • Call them spontaneously and let them know that you are thinking about them.
  • Hold their hand.
  • Give them a massage after a rough day.
  • Leave them notes and let them know how you feel.
  • Place your arm around them as you’re taking a walk.
  • Smile at them.
Don’t relive the past and what happened. Forget about it and move on.

Before you can move on, learn from your mistakes and vow not to repeat them again. If you and your ex are looking to start fresh in a relationship with each   other, start slow and don’t expect a lot from each other in the beginning.


Going slow is the best way to renew and rekindle a relationship. Both of you will be able to start fresh and make amends.
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Wednesday, February 26, 2014

Tips To Get Your Ex Back: Don’t Appear Desperate

If you are working to get back with your ex, the last thing he or she wants is for someone to be calling them or hounding them every few hours. The more you do it, the quicker you push them away from you.
 
When working to get back with your ex, there are some things that you should not do:
  • Show your desperation outwardly.
  • Squander the other person’s time.
  • Constantly asking them whether or not they are still interested in getting back together with you.
  • Constantly asking other questions in regard to feelings.
  • Give them the space they need.
  • Don’t call them every day or every few hours.
Don’t center your life around your ex. Be free to do other things. Find other
activities that you are interested in. When you do spend time with your ex, you will appreciate it more and have more things to talk about. Being needy is dangerous and can lead to a failed reunion.
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Why Do We React So Differently .............................................. 2
1. I Miss You So Much! If You Don’t Come Back... .................. 4
2. This Is Your Fault .................................................................. 6
3. To Much Talking In General .................................................. 7
4. Any Kind of Lie About How Great Your Doing ..................... 9
5. Want to Do It One Last Time ............................................... 10
6. I Hate You ........................................................................... 11
7. I Love You .......................................................................... 12

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Tuesday, February 25, 2014

Best Way to Get Your Ex Back : Be Confident, Not Needy

It has been shown that the more you try to get your ex back, the more they try to stay away from you. In other words, if you become needy and desperate to get your ex back, your ex will feel suffocated causing even more distance
between the two of you.
 

What your ex really wants is someone who can think for themselves and has a
strong will to be the best they can be. They also want someone who will
challenge them to be the best that they can be.
 

Find out what your ex really wants in regard to a relationship. Ask them
questions. You may be surprised at their answers. Don’t take them for
granted and assume what is really impor
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Monday, February 24, 2014

Get Your Ex Back Strategy #3: Evaluate Your Relationship

When you are working on getting back together with your ex, both of you have
to keep in mind that it takes TWO people to repair a relationship. Both of you
must agree to do what it takes to make it happen. If only one of you wants to
make progress, the relationship will be doomed from the start.
 
After both of you have decided to move forward with getting back together,
you will have to take renewed steps to get it right this time. Maybe one of you has a habit of a bad temper.
 
Renew your mind so that you don’t flare up every time something does not go
your way or there’s something you’re not happy about. Making that step to
change bad habits is required if you truly want to make your relationship work.
 
Basically, you are starting all over again with your ex. Make it a fresh start.
Think about the first time the two of you met and made it work. Get
reacquainted with each other. You will have to get to know each other again
from the beginning. Think about some of the special times that you had with
your ex. See if you can rekindle some of those times again.
 
Seek and ask for forgiveness for the mistakes you made in the previous
relationship. Also, forgive yourself for what happened. That is the only way
that you can move forward without carrying a burden of guilt.
 
You and your ex need to be willing to change your thinking about certain
things. You can’t take some of the same attitudes that you had before and
use them. They may be detrimental to your relationship.
 
Work on rebuilding your future rather than staying stuck in your past. You
won’t move forward together if you can’t let go, and focus on what is most
important – building a future together.
 
You and your ex must be willing to listen to each other. In order to
communicate effectively, both parties should feel comfortable being open with
their thoughts and feelings, regardless how it may make the other person feel
at times.
 
Don’t brush off things that your ex has to say. In essence, you are
disconnecting from your ex when you fail to genuinely listen to what is on their minds. Disconnection can lead to a distant relationship and ultimately destroy your chances at staying together.
 
Nourish the relationship and each other. When you do that, you allow the
relationship to grow. Be a caring and affectionate person. Show your ex that
you care for them and that you are serious about getting back together.
Work on your differences and don’t let them stop you from moving forward.
Both you and your ex have to trust each other. Trust is very important in a
relationship. It’s even more important when you are trying to get back with
your ex. Trust makes for a solid foundation in every relationship.
 
When you are learning to bond with your ex again, take it day by day. Don’t
be in a rush to make it right. You want to lead up to it and make it worth your
while. This time around, you want your relationship with your ex to last.
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Saturday, February 22, 2014

Get Your Ex Back Strategy #2: Take Your Time

Get Your Ex Back Strategy #1: Improve Yourself

Get Your Ex Back Strategy #2: Take Your Time

If it’s full speed ahead for you and your ex, both parties need to check
themselves. There are things that should have been resolved prior to you
guys getting back together.
 

Here are some things that you need to do before you rebuild that commitment
again:
 

· If your relationship was wavering, you and your ex need to make sure
that this time around the outcome will be different. Both of you have to
make changes in order for the relationship to work and grow.


· You and your ex have learned what to do and what not to do from your
previous relationship. The mistakes that were made back then are
history. You have realized that you can’t do the same things again.


· Any problems that both of you had with each other have been resolved.
Those issues will not or should not come up again. It’s important to
hash out the past before moving on to the future.


· Both parties must be willing to give and take. It can’t be one person
always giving and the other one always taking. There has to be a
balance. Also, there will be times when you have to compromise, even
though you may not want to.


· Both parties will need to agree to disagree. It’s obvious that you’re not
going to agree on everything, but you can agree to disagree. Doing
that will give both of you a peace of mind.


· You and your ex both know what you want out of the relationship. You
have sat and talked with each other extensively. You know each
other’s habits, what makes you alike as well as what makes you
different and you’re willing to accept that.


· You don’t have to be around each other all of the time. Even in a
relationship, you still need space. If you don’t one of you may start
feeling needy. Or one of you may start feeling cramped.


· Move on from past mistakes. Both of you are looking for a fresh start,
so what better way to do it than to move forward? Looking back in the
past just keeps you behind. You can’t move forward if you’re always
dwelling on what happened before, especially if it was negative.


· You have confidence that the relationship will work. You and your ex
can work together to iron out any differences that you may have.


· You have genuine respect for each other. Neither of you is about
disrespecting the other in any way.


· Be able to be affectionate toward your ex again. This is one of the main
parts of getting back together. There has to be genuine love and care
for each other. Don’t just get back together because of the intimacy
and the lovemaking that you miss so much.


· Remove any jealousy or envy from your relationship. You nor your ex
can have a satisfying and productive relationship if one or both parties
are insecure and can’t trust each other.
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Get Your Ex Back Strategy #1: Improve Yourself

One of the most powerful things you can do to recapture your ex’s attention is to go through a complete self-improvement overhaul that starts from the inside – out.

Do you know what this will do for your chances at reuniting with your ex?
It will remind your ex of why they fell in love with you in the first place, and it
will take them back to a time when you were happy and excited about
exploring one another as you grew closer every day.

You also want your ex to see you and think “Wow, she or he looks great. I
wonder what he/she is up to”.

If you do this right, your ex won’t think you are doing it for them, but for
yourself and again, this confidence is a powerful magnet that will draw your ex
in, and get more attention than you ever could any other way!

Here are a few ways that you can begin improving your self image:

Join A Gym!
There is no better way to begin the self-improvement process than to join a
local gym. Not only will you make new friends, but you will be able to get some of that stress out through a powerful work out!

Become Social
The last thing you want is for your ex to see you as someone with no social
life, who is sitting at home pining away the hours until they return. If there is no, threat of you moving on, your ex has no reason in the world not to just do their own thing until your ex feels like coming back.

Take Up A Sport
Odds are that you enjoyed something that you may have pushed aside to
focus on your relationship. Perhaps you used to play hockey, pool or baseball.
You may have gathered the guys up for a game of poker once a week, or you
went golfing. Now is the time to renew those relationships with your friends.
Invite the guys out for a day on the town, or onto a field for your favorite sport.

Take Up A Hobby
This is time for you so spend it focused on things that you enjoy. Perhaps you
enjoy camping, hiking, model cars, or playing an instrument. Whatever you
enjoy, now is the time to dive right into it.

Take Up A New Skill
Are you into computers? Spend some time learning a new skill such as
programming or designing. Perhaps you have always wanted to learn
photography, or you wanted to finish that book that’s been sitting at your desk.
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Sunday, February 9, 2014

Do you want your Ex back?

Do you want your Ex back? If you have tried everything, and still aren't able to get your Ex back, then you need to pay attention.

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My system is rooted in behavioral psychology. By combining this with text messages to deliver the message, the result is a system that is so powerful, it has worked for more than 10,000 people!

Text messages are direct, non-confrontational, and can be responded to when it is convenient to the person you sent it to. They are especially effective when dealing with the situation in person, could be too risky.

Let Justin Sinclair, personal relationship expert, show you exactly what messages you need to send your Ex, and how to send them. You'll be blown away when your Ex starts talking to you again and eventually asks to see you.
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Saturday, February 8, 2014

How We Got Back Together

How We Got Back Together. Of course, if things had been going well, she'd have believed the (truthful) explanation. A colleague getting overenthusiastic when we'd just won a big advertising pitch. It was hugs and kisses all round, I think I even kissed my boss, and he's the father of four and built like a quarterback.

How We Got Back Together


But things hadn't been going well. We'd moved in together, and frankly we were driving each other mad.I love her like crazy, but I just wasn't used to accounting for my actions, minute by minute. That girl loves to text. Every second of the day, where am I, what am I doing, what did I have for lunch, do you want steak for dinner - the constant texts made me feel like a prisoner under observation. Secret to Get Your Ex Back.

But after the fight, I missed them. I missed the almost continuous low "ting" that heralded a message coming in. I missed my phone come to that, and had to go get a new one. Fortunately, my plan let me have my old number. How to get Your ex Back.

No texts. Not one. So, I decided to reverse roles. I sent her texts, day and night. "I miss waking up with you." "I heard our song just now and it made me cry." "Are you lonesome tonight?" "My love is like a red, red rose." Every cliche, every romantic memory, every song, every poem,every thing which had meant something to us, I texted it to her.

And not in text language. No - I used fully spelled out, beautifully punctuated English.

Finally, one day, my phone went "ting". And it was her. "Yes, I do miss you." I texted her straight back, "I'm so sorry we fought, I was an idiot." Back she came. "I believe you about the lipstick."

Then it just became too much, I dialed her number, and we talked, and then that wasn't enough, so I literally ran to our old place, and she was waiting for me.....

She still texts a lot, but not as much as before. We had a good old fashioned face to face conversation, and I told her how I didn't want to feel she was spying on me. We made an agreement to talk more and text less. 4 me its going gr8.

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Secrets To Get Your Ex Back

If you have just gone through a breakup and want to get your ex back, there are some things you should do and other things that you shouldn't do. If you're texting game is good, you may be able to initiate contact with your ex. This all depends on how your breakup happened. If it was a nasty breakup, it's almost always best to wait a few weeks before you contact your ex again. Also avoid falling into the "creeper zone" sometimes it's just better to let the relationship go. You will have to judge this by your own relationship context. But, if you think there is a reasonable chance you can get back with your ex, there are some simple texts you can try in order to test the water. The following texts explain all the secrets to making up:

"Hey, I think we should talk sometime."



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The reason that this message is so powerful is because it is not too aggressive, yet sets a tone for the direction you want to take the relationship. You aren't asking to go out on a date that night, you just want to re-establish the lines of communication. It doesn't sound too needy and can show that you have matured (if that was an issue in the relationship). Furthermore, you let your ex know that you are still thinking about them and that they are still important to you.

" I want to know how you are doing."

This is similar to the first text in the sense this it communicates that there is still interest on your part. By making the conversation focused on your ex, they will feel that you still care about them. In a particularly painful breakup, this can be very important. It's important, as well, to not put your partner on the defensive when you are re-initiating contact. There should be no blame to go around. By focusing the on the positive aspects of your relationship, you will be more likely to gain the attraction that you first had for one another. If your ex is receptive to talking, you can even get more personal. Saying things like "I miss you" or " I miss what we had" are ways to remind your ex that they are still important in your life. Furthermore, these kinds of statements can help heal hurt that your partners felt in the relationship.

"Hey, what's up?"

While this may seem overly simplified and is by no means a "line", it could be the most important thing you say to get your ex back. Anything that gets you talking with your ex again is a good thing, as it will likely reignite the initial things that attracted you to each other in the first place. By talking with your ex, you will increase the likelihood that you will get your ex back. The best part about this strategy is that you get to go at your own pace and build slowly. Healing a relationship takes time, and you are the best to judge how quickly it will take that relationship to heal. We have shared with you the secrets to making up, so give it a try today!


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If you want to get back with your ex, here's how!

Have you broken up with someone because of a misunderstanding, an argument, or over something that really shouldn't have caused a break up? Cause if you are then I can understand wanting to fix your relationship even if you had gotten pretty upset with them. There are a few methods you can take first is the active version and after the passive version.

If you want to get back with your ex, here's how!


Now to take the active approach and if your ex is willing to talk then this method should be the most straightforward, but if the heat of the last argument hasn't cooled down between the both of you then it most likely will lead to another word fight. First, come to understand what the argument was about. Then, if the argument is something you regret and that you truly want to get back together then you need to express that with your ex. Now, they might not want to talk to you and still feel upset, but you should kindly tell them that the argument went way out of hand and anything you said wasn't how you really felt and that you would want to possibly talk things over with them. Having sincerity in your words is far more important than pride at this point, but if they won't give you time they certainly don't deserve your attention.

Next we have is the passive method this one focuses solely on self evaluation and to get your ex to look at a fresh you. This one is probably the better option for both you and the entire relationship. The reason I say that is because if you look from how you were before, during, and after the relationship you gotta make some decisions based on how you feel towards yourself. Are you happy with who you are now? If not then you should choose this option, not only is it possible you'll catch your ex's attention, but you will feel better about yourself along with it. The steps for this method is easy. First, try changing your hairstyle to something you normally don't do, but look good with.

Next, spice up your wardrobe with something new for instance try different colored shirts that might bring a different feel that isn't usual for you. Now, the next step should be easier and something you need to think about less before doing and that would be to just hang out with your friends or some new companions and just enjoy yourself. Now the final step after separating any sad feelings and partly moved on from your ex if you still want to get back together. Talk to your ex with that new found confidence and bright appearance they just might jump at the chance to get back with you. This might make you happy to realize that your hurt feelings from the past are still there and the only reason your standing there now is because of how you feel towards them.

If you can't get past all of the drama with your ex they might not be worth it and then its time to move on and if you take the passive method you will most definitely come out with less scars and a lot more hope for future relationships that you can work on with them and even decide some things up front to prevent past problems to reoccur. I hope my insight is useful for many situations and even help those that need to move on, because there is no fix all answer. 



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